Okay, so I know these photos are a bit, errmmm intimate, so to say but I felt the need to take & post them to make a very important point —-
The other day I went to the mall in Frankfurt and was shopping around, I walked into some random German woman’s clothing store much like a Victoria’s Secret. As I was looking around I noticed two young teenage girls (probably about 16 or 17 they seemed) pointing and laughing about something. At first I was just surprised to see other young american girls (I don’t see it very often, most times they speak in German back & fourth if they can) speaking in English… But then I over heard what they were laughing about- and sadly they were making fun of another woman. I listened in for a few minutes and found they were saying things like “She’s just so fat, why would SHE need to shop here?” and “Why would she do something like that to herself? Doesn’t she care what she looks like?” and finally just rude remarks like “Oh my god, Ew no.”
Finally, I had enough of listening to them and tried my best to just politely ignore it. I had a really hard time doing so and eventually searched for the woman they were speaking of. When I found her I was appalled at the young girls. The other woman, she wasn’t hard to find seeing as she was only on the opposite side of the display— happened to be of young/middle age (probably about 30 or 40 something.) She was pretty over weight, simply wearing a t-shirt and lounge pants, had her hair thrown up into a pony tail, but over all just looked somewhat exasperated with her efforts. I felt for her. She seemed to pick out intimate outfit after outfit and put them all down. You could tell that she wasn’t having a good time. I can only imagine what she felt like searching for something that she looked determined to have.
I was totally outraged with the two young girls. It made me SO angry that they would talk about someone like that. Even if they girl was completely fit and had full make up and everything… It just blows my mind that some people can be that shallow and think making fun of others that way is okay to do. ITS NOT. EVER. Making fun of people, whether they are a size 2 or size 20 or have brown, black, red, purple or green fucking hair, YOU HAVE NO RIGHT.
Those two girls have no idea what that woman was picking outfits out for or why she looked the way she did. Maybe the woman was very confident in herself? What if she loved herself, every bit of it? Maybe she was finally taking charge of her life and fitness and had new found confidence? Maybe she was picking out those sexy outfits for her loving husband back at home? Maybe she had just gotten a new boyfriend and wanted to impress him? For whatever reason, that woman was beautiful. To be able to put on an outfit that shows your body and be okay with yourself shows just how STRONG of a woman you can be. It shows a level of self confidence. And on the other hand… making fun of a random woman in a public mall just for entertainment also shows a lot about you. I honestly hope none of y’all, as my followers, have EVER been the girls making fun of others. Its not funny, its not cute. Its just cruel.
I’m posting these photos to show that ANY woman, no matter what size, hair color, weight, height, ANYTHING. you can be one sexy little thing <3 Just have confidence in yourself, and rock whatever outfit
(or lack there of (; ) that you want and you will ALWAYS look beautiful and sexy. That includes being 5 foot 2, 150 lbs, and a US size 10. It also includes being 5 foot 11, 130 lbs, and a US size 4. Whatever body you have, YOU ARE SEXY. work that fabulous body <3
Confidence is sexy. And making fun of others is just wrong.
Please don’t make me regret posting these tumblr! I’m already feeling nervous about the feed back…